Smart Love by Dr. David and Dr. Jan Stoop

Smart Love – How Improving Your Emotional Intelligence will Transform Your Marriage.

The principles of emotional intelligence have long been applied to the business world with remarkable results. But what would happen if they were applied to that most important of relationships–marriage?

My Review


Smart Love is written by the doctors, who are married. So they must know a thing or two.

I must admit I was a little skeptical when I picked up Smart love. I have read a boatload of these kinds of books, and while they are wonderful, they really only work if your spouse reads them too.

What if your spouse does not read ya’ll?

I digress, I found this book to give me many “Ah-ha” moments and the authors use real people in real situations to illustrate their point. Add to that just the right amount of geeky science stuff (that I love) and this girl is a happy camper.

(Well, figuratively speaking …. because I hate camping.)

And, there are quizzes!!! Yes, I did take pencil to the page and fill them out and was impressed and somewhat surprised at my EQ. EQ=Emotional Intelligence

I think if you have read all those other marriage books (nothing wrong with them) but you did not get what you wanted out of it, try this one. For me, it really taught me more about myself and why I do what I do. That, right there was worth it.

And I learned a few new ways to react. Win-win!

Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc.

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Dr. David Stoop is the founder and director of the Center for Family Therapy and is a cohost of the nationally syndicated New Life Live! radio and TV program. He is the author of more than thirty books, including Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget and Rethink How You Think.

Dr. Jan Stoop is a counselor, author, and seminar speaker. Together the Stoops are coauthors of Just Us: Finding Intimacy with God and Each Other and When Couples Pray Together.

They lead seminars and retreats on topics such as marital relationships, men’s issues, fathering and forgiveness. Married for more than fifty years, they live in California.



Melony Teague is a freelance writer who believes everyone has a story to tell and each story is unique and sometimes wilder than fiction. She loves to uncover the good news in society and writes human interest and community pieces. As co-author of As the Ink Flows, she loves to inspire and motivate others through her written words. In her spare time, she reviews books and interviews authors. These reviews can be found right here on her website. Melony Teague was born in South Africa and immigrated to Canada. She now lives in Toronto with her husband and their two children and two cats.



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